I used to want an answer to this question

Now I’m obsessed with why we’re asking it.

Being a person is simultaneously gorgeous and traumatizing, no?

There’s **waves hands around wildly** A LOT going on, and we desperately want someone to tell us how to like being alive.

Not any one person, of course.

We grew up on the internet, which gave us a healthy suspicion of any one person claiming to have all the answers. We’re grifter-trained. Con…